So for you who read my blog cause of it's entertainment factor well this entry will not be quite so entertaining, well unless you find my friendship drama entertaining. I should preface that I am not mad at Courtney or Ilse and they are still my very dear friends.
So it all started with my two very very very dear friends Courtney and Ilse and a very late birthday celebration. Any way Ilse and I have been planning Courtney's be-lated birthday. Well Ilse while trying to reconcile or work out some issues she had with my former friend Emma (I'm not mad at Ilse by any stretch of the imagination in fact I'm proud of her for trying to work things out with Emma.) Invited her to Courtney's Birthday, which I'm okay with I mean I personally don't get along with Emma but Courtney does and it being her birthday she should have who she wants there.
So the plan was to Take Courtney to her favorite restaurant and come back to my house to play game's and watch a movie, well at least that was the plan until this morning, but I'm getting ahead of myself so let be back up a little bit. So yesterday Emma asks Ilse if she could bring her boyfriend. Well Ilse told her she needed to make sure it was okay with her. So Courtney said that she needed to check with us. Well since Ilse and I were planning it I think it's common courtesy to check with all the people in charge off planning it well she didn't check with me I gave her till this after noon and she never did so I told her that I wasn't sure if it was a good idea for her to bring her boyfriend because it was just going to be 4 girls and him, also that it was Courtney's party and none of us really know him which didn't think was the best idea to play meet the boyfriend at some ones birthday, and lastly I didn't feel comfortable having some one I don't know at my house. Well she told me that Courtney was okay with it, which I already knew, but she didn't even address my concerns. So I decided to take back my offer of my house as the party place, because my concerns are not important to Emma. So now the plan is to go to the restaurant and then to a park for games and Emma's boyfriend is still coming.
Sometimes I feel like Emma is really out to make my life miserable so now I think this is really the end of me and Emma after Courtney's thing I'm not gonna be able to be around Emma ever again.
So it may sound like I'm overreacting and I might be but I think that if you knew everything that I have been through with her you might not think I overreacting that much.
On a much Happier note now that I am getting around to putting it on my blog I have a very very very beautiful niece Adeline Joy Bennion born June 11, 2008 and she is just the tiniest little girl I have ever seen so good going Jess and Michelle you do good work!!!!! I have a picture of her and me but I'm waiting to post it because I have red eye's so I look like a demon and there will be no demons around my little niece.
On a funny not my little Nephew Walker had an accident at the park and I guess his teeth went through his lip and so he had to get 6 stitches to fix it and he got like 10 shots in his mouth and didn't cry at all but he I guess was very happy to get some shots cause he didn't get any at his last visit to see Dr. Berry (Dr. Raspberry as they like to call him) and he really wanted one. This little Walker boy is one tough kid tougher than his auntie Victoria who still at 22 can't handle getting a shot so way to go Walker boy auntie V is very proud of you.
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3 comments:
What a bummer. It is always hard when friends have relationships (love ones or other friendships) that converge on our own. Trying to make it work always takes effort. Sorry to hear that it did not go the way you wanted it to.
Hopefully you and Emma can talk this one out. You have been such good friends.
And yes, Addie is the cutest and Walker is the bravest. E is posting about it right now!
Happy 4th!
I'm sorry, sometimes it can be tough to juggle friends when boyfriends and or girlfriends are involved.
I am glad to see you blogging about your feelings though. Sometimes it helps to get it out, and you can look back on it in a few weeks and maybe see it a bit differently. (I also like to get outside point of views)
Shelly~
I don't really have any intentions of fixing the friendship I once had with Emma because she is not interested in fixing it because I am a sinner and she spares not pain in telling me so and is unwilling to accept that people change in ways that she doesn't agree with. On my end I hate it when people regress in maturity and she is a 15 year old stuck in a 24 year olds body. yes that is a little harsh but that's how I feel
Michelle~
It felt really good to get my frustrations off my back knowing that some one or several people would hear it but that I could say it with out interruptions which is sometimes all you need to feel better.
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